EVERY COUPLE/FAMILY MUST READ
THIS...
A boy was born to a couple after
eleven years of marriage. They were a
loving couple and the boy was the
apple of their eyes. When the boy was
around two years old, one morning the
husband saw a medicine bottle open.
He was late for work so he asked the
wife to cap the bottle and keep it in the
cupboard. The mother, preoccupied in
the kitchen, totally forgot the matter.
The boy saw the bottle and playfully
went to the bottle and, fascinated with
its color, drank it all. It happened to be
a poisonous medicine meant for adults
in small dosages. When the child
collapsed, the mother hurried him to
the hospital, where he died. The
mother was stunned. She was terrified
how to face her husband.
When the distraught father came to the
hospital and saw the dead child, he
looked at his wife and uttered just four
words.
What do you think were the four
words?
The husband just said "I Love You
Darling"
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The husband's totally unexpected
reaction is proactive behavior. The
child is dead. He can never be brought
back to life but There is no point in
finding fault with the mother. Besides,
if only he have taken time to keep the
bottle away, this will not have
happened. No point in attaching
blame. She had also lost her only child.
What she needed at that moment was
consolation and sympathy from the
husband. That is what he gave her.
Sometimes we spend time asking who
is responsible or who to blame,
whether in a relationship, in a job or
with the people we know. We miss out
some warmth in human relationship in
giving each other support. After all,
shouldn't forgiving someone we love
be the easiest thing in the world to do?
Treasure what you have. Don't multiply
pain, anguish and suffering by holding
on to forgiveness.
If everyone can look at life with this
kind of perspective, there would be
much fewer problems in the world.
Take off all your envies, jealousies,
unwillingness to forgive, selfishness,
and fears and you will find things are
actually not as difficult as you think.
